Update deps (#3580)

⚠ This also bumps the required go version to 1.23.0

All in one dependabot updates:
https://github.com/element-hq/dendrite/pull/3507
https://github.com/element-hq/dendrite/pull/3559
https://github.com/element-hq/dendrite/pull/3560
https://github.com/element-hq/dendrite/pull/3561
https://github.com/element-hq/dendrite/pull/3573
https://github.com/element-hq/dendrite/pull/3574
https://github.com/element-hq/dendrite/pull/3575
https://github.com/element-hq/dendrite/pull/3576
https://github.com/element-hq/dendrite/pull/3577
https://github.com/element-hq/dendrite/pull/3579

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build/scripts/Complement.Dockerfile

@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 #syntax=docker/dockerfile:1.2
 
-FROM golang:1.22-bookworm as build
+FROM golang:1.23-bookworm as build
 RUN apt-get update && apt-get install -y sqlite3
 WORKDIR /build
 

build/scripts/ComplementLocal.Dockerfile

@@ -8,7 +8,7 @@
 #
 # Use these mounts to make use of this dockerfile:
 # COMPLEMENT_HOST_MOUNTS='/your/local/dendrite:/dendrite:ro;/your/go/path:/go:ro'
-FROM golang:1.22-bookworm
+FROM golang:1.23-bookworm
 RUN apt-get update && apt-get install -y sqlite3
 
 ENV SERVER_NAME=localhost

build/scripts/ComplementPostgres.Dockerfile

@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 #syntax=docker/dockerfile:1.2
 
-FROM golang:1.22-bookworm as build
+FROM golang:1.23-bookworm as build
 RUN apt-get update && apt-get install -y postgresql
 WORKDIR /build